Your Balance number can present you with the basic guidance on how best to deal with difficult, complicated, stressful or daunting circumstances. When under stress, the clues provided by your Balance number may help you to find a way to find peace of mind. Of course, we all experience different reactions to our personal challenges.
Utilizing your inner strength and the guidance provided by this number could provide a course toward stabilization. Everyone will not benefit from the same tools, or techniques. Some people will find meditation calming, while others may need to “blow off steam” in the gym.
Although your personal Balance number represents your ability to remain relaxed and balanced it is not usually regarded as a major aspect in your life. Its power comes into your life when you “let things go” and feel “off kilter” or when you experience times of heavy stress, conflict, or turmoil.
During challenging or stressful times, if you do not have an outlet for your worries/stress then you may find yourself struggling to achieve a sense of calm. Paying attention to the information that your Balance Number can provide (as well as your other numbers) may allow you to begin to stabilize yourself.
How to find it:
Your Balance number is found by adding the numerical value of the initials of your full name at birth. If you were born John Thomas Doe, then you would analyze the following letters: J, T, and D.
The chart below can be used for your calculations:
A, J, S = 1
B, K, T = 2
C, L, U = 3
D, M, V = 4
E, N, W = 5
F, O, X = 6
G, P, Y = 7
H, Q, Z = 8
I, R = 9
For our example:
J = 1
T = 2
D = 4
1 + 2 + 4 = 7
John has a Balance number of 7. This means that John may enjoy time by himself, but he may need to find a way to better connect with his family and friends during times of stress as he may often try to solve all his difficulties alone or perhaps simply try to wait out his problems.
Balance Number 1
Sharing, Community, Friendship, Perspectives, Connections
Talking with others, Volunteering, Creative arts
When your balance number is 1, you can benefit most by bringing others into your life to help support you. Connecting with others can be very rewarding. Often, your first response to a dilemma would be to solve it alone. However, friends and family members may be able to offer a unique perspective on your situation.
Balance Number 2
Calm, Focused, Diplomacy, Trust, Honesty, Stability
Listening, Meditating, Listening to Music
When your balance number is 2, you can benefit most by learning to loosen up and keeping a cool head, adapt, share and trust others. Accepting the opinions and views of others can allow you to be seen as flexible, agreeable, diplomatic and easy going. At times your stubborn attitude may make you appear rigid, emotional and unyielding.
However, giving in to others does not mean that you have to be self-sacrificing. Be calm and remember the phrase: “Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill”. Also learn to balance persistence, tolerance, and dedication.
As you develop diplomatic skills you can achieve your goals more easily. You will also be able to keep the peace within most situations. Many may look to you for support and strength when it seems like a situation will have no solution.
Balance Number 3
Fun, Humor, Wit, Sharing, Assistance, Optimism
Laughter, Exercise, Talking
When your balance number is 3 you can benefit most by leaning on others when it seems like your work load, or stress level, is too high. Do not be afraid to ask others for help.
At times your tendency to become too emotionally involved to the answer you want, or desperately need, may cause you to overlook possibilities that may benefit the all parties involved or the community at large.
You may need to take some time and just have fun. It may be that you are letting the little things drag you down. Your good humor, charm, and optimism can inspire others to help you out of almost any situation that you find yourself in. Although you must be careful not to overly rely on the accomplishments of others.
Balance Number 4
Optimism, Structure, Stability, Dedication, Justice
Yoga, Meditation, Games
When your balance number is 4 you can benefit most by learning how to be less rigid and controlling. Early on, you may have learned that discipline and structure are important. However, you may at times forget that having fun can be important to your life as well. Try to develop a more optimistic and open minded attitude toward problems, especially those that have emotional undertones. Let others have a voice, and learn when to be more social and less demanding.
You can also benefit by finding ways to release your resentment or anger. You may have a finely honed sense of right and wrong, which can trigger your passion. At times you may want to quickly punish those who seem to do wrong, and reward those who seem to do right. Learn that the world is not black and white, and you can develop insight, leadership, impartiality and compassion.
Balance Number 5
Focus, Insight, Knowledge, Clarity, Simple, Practical
Walking, Running, Rest, Relaxation
When your balance number is 5, you can benefit most by learning how to be present, taking one day at a time, and breaking down your problems in manageable tasks. Asking others for help may be a good thing to do as well. Meditation, and support groups may help you to stay focused.
At times you may over-rely on food, alcohol, television, or drugs as a means of escape. Try to remain in the present. Find ways conscious and mindful ways to deal with your problems.
You have a highly creative and intuitive mind. Some of your issues may be attributed to ignoring your abilities and being pulled into a dry, dull and listless life. Do not allow yourself to be painted into a corner. Do not allow yourself to be boxed in. Reach out, create, invent, and contribute to the world. You can be at your best when you are utilizing your creative and intuitive abilities.
Balance Number 6
Compassion, Friendship, Dedication, Love, Inspiration
Education, Relaxing, Doing something for yourself, Volunteering
When your balance number is 6 you can benefit most by learning to trust your instincts. At times, you may overly rely on others for support. If you can learn to tap into your management skills then you can be successful in most situations. Others will come to you to solve difficult problems.
At times you may rather enjoy yourself than handle your obligations and responsibilities. Early on, friends and family members may help you out of difficult situations as your charm; general good nature and passion can inspire them. However they can eventually grow to resent the fact that they are doing your work, and fighting your battles for you, especially if they are constantly called upon for assistance.
Balance Number 7
Courage, Determination, Power, Victory, Leadership, Knowledge
Reading, Lectures, Strength training, Volunteering, Action
When your balance number is 7, you can benefit most by learning how to be more active, demanding, present, courageous, and determined. Too often, you may retreat inward during times of stress. Instead learn that you are a capable person and that many of the tools you need are inside. Your unique perspectives can allow you to see problems in unique ways. Your ideas can help others to learn about the world in a whole new way.
Find methods to learn more about yourself and your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual needs. Too often you may worry about the needs of friends/family while forgetting about your own. Learn to take action and deal with obstacles in your life. Although your life may seem unique, others have had experiences similar to your own. Allow them to help you. Conflict is not your enemy.
Balance Number 8
Leadership, Power, Control, Victory, Strength, Stamina, Inspiring
When your balance number is 8, you can benefit most by learning leadership and communication skills. You can have a natural leader like presence that draws others to you for guidance and decisions. At times you can be forceful and demanding. Because of your powerful nature you will also benefit by learning about honesty, power and responsibility as you may have considerable responsibilities.
If you are controlling and manipulative then you may end up in hot water at times. Best results in your life can be achieved by utilizing your inner strength, courage, stamina and creativity. Also, learn to let others have a voice.
Balance Number 9
Giving, Leading, Direct, Insight, Illuminate, Community, Guide
When your balance number is 9 you can benefit most by breaking away from your inner world and connecting with the people in your life. Remember the phrase: “It is better to give that receive.” Because of your problem solving abilities others may be drawn to you. Offering practical advice can be a way to connect with others and it well help you to understand them. You have keen insights that can inspire and aid others. Your help can allow you to identify with the needs of the people in your life, which may be far different than your own. Sharing your gifts can help others to see you in a new light.